I don't think that space " bends " at all ; it is the matter IN space that forms any geometry between the macroscopic forms such as the Sun and planet(s) .
And you would be correct! Space is simply what is between you and me and the Moon and beyond....Time simply stops everything from happening together. The rest is fairy tale nonsense.
Spacetime of course is the unified multi-dimensional framework within which it is possible to locate events and describe the relationships between them in terms of spatial coordinates and time. the concept spacetime follows from the observation that the speed of light is invariant, i.e. it does not vary with the motion of the emitter or the observer. Spacetime allows a description of reality that is common for all observers in the
universe, regardless of their relative motion.
So in effect light does not bend per se. It is spacetime that bends in the presence of mass and/or energy. Light simply follows geodesics in that curved/bent spacetime.
This has been positively verified many times by many methods...the prehelion shift of Mercury, gravitational lensing are the most recognised.
The BB was the evolution of this space and time we now call spacetime. ..the four forces were unified as one superforce, and we had no matter at all, until this superforce at around t=10-35th second started to decouple. This created false vacuums and phase transitions and the excesses of energy went into creating our first particle.
As Dave so wisely told you, drop the fairy tale books, pick up a science book, accept that you are not any learned professional, and learn from those learned professionals and the words and evidence of the greats of the past on whose shoulders they stand.