Aborted_Fetus: Yes Medicine Woman, it definitely is a process. I went to a Cathlic high school (not for religious purposes, though, mostly for sports), of which I entered Catholic, but left atheist. I had to take religion class all fours years there, and through the first year I had my doubts. Same with my second year. The third year is when I ultimately made the decision that the idea of God, Jesus, and the Bible was completely rediculous. I had a teacher that was super-religious, which at first did not bother me too much. But the way he taught his class made me so angry. The class was supposed to be more like a history of the Catholic church type of thing, but it ended up being my teacher almost brainwashing us into thinking like him. He presented ideas from the Bible as absolute fact (which, by the way, previous teachers did NOT do, even a priest that I had). His way of teaching angered me so much that it led me to reading atheistic literature, at first just to write sarcastic essays for him. But then I found that this literature made more sense than ANYTHING I had read in the Bible or other religious works I was forced to read. It was almost liberating to read these things that confirmed by doubts I have been having for all these years.
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M*W: Been there, done that, too. I went to an ultra conservative Baptist University, and I hated the religion courses and the twice a week church assembly. Since they didn't take attendance at these huge assemblies, I skipped out on Tuesdays and Thursdays. After that Baptist experience, I went on to marry a Catholic, who my Baptist friends tried to sway me away from. I wished I had listened to them at the time, but I was stubborn. I became Catholic to raise my kids in a religion. The two older ones left the Catholic church and embraced two kinds of holy roller church, and my two younger ones believe as I now do. I might also add here that my two eldest kids, grown of course, are nuttier than fruitcakes. You can imagine how fiercely they have tried to save my soul, but they've also got their friends praying for my salvation and annoying me with their phone calls and uninvited visits! If it's not from them bothering me, it's the Mormons and JW's coming to my door. Thus far, they have been unable to answer some of the questions I pose! I like to make them stand there and throw all kinds of questions at them. Maybe I'll give them something to think about!
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Aborted_Fetus: My parents, even though they are Catholic, never had me baptized as a child, they wanted to let me grow up and think for myself. They have always taught me to think for myself, which, as I look back on it, might have been the greatest thing they have ever taught me.
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M*W: My parents taught me no religion, which made me curious since all my friends seemed to go to church. When I did become Catholic, I scorched the Earth for a few years teaching catechism, but I reached a point that even the priests couldn't/wouldn't answer my questions. I knew the truth would be found, but that I would have to go looking for it. When I found the truth, I realized that christianity was a false religion. Since then, about ten years ago, I began my research. I wanted to prove christianity was without a doubt a good religion. I feared leaving the church! Them more I researched, the further I fell away. Recently, from my studies on Egyptology, I have begun to believe that even Judaism was a false religion. The Torah was totally written by and for the Egyptians. Maybe we should all be Egyptians, then? Who knows? Christianity is a dying religion worldwide. I hope I live long enough to see its demise. The study of Jesus and the study of christianity are two separate and diverse subjects. If you want to learn about Jesus, the last place one should look is in the bible. Christianity does not relate to the historic Jesus at all.