How about the fact that your personality is shaped by your upbringing, genetics and environment?
Just becase your parents control your free will till your 18, doesn't mean they haven't filled your head with some false beliefs. Of course the determinism in your behavior is bound by causailiy. Still the further away in time you get from the causality of your behavioral actions and cognitions that place constraints on your mind the further bounds you can come to a relization of free will. It is still an individual perspective which means that: (conditional statement) if you yourself deny free, Then will it does not exist to you. You can not deny that it exists to my perspective, you can only argue against the amount of control I have over the subject.
You're still assuming that each decision you make is freely made, yet once you start to examine them not a single one is free of external (or past) influence.
Really? When did I say each decision, I clearly stated many that have included times when a person would not have free will. That's like saying your past influences have not made you a target for this discussion. My past influences have prepared me for this type of thread. I have had this experience of being bound to the free will of another. A puppet if you will. She plays the tune and I dance, as I love the way she dances. But while I was in this trance you can bet I was paying attention. I was always more of an observer to others actions. I have not forgotten one single thought or action of any person since my tragedy was overcome that did not allow me to determine how much free will another allows themselves to have. It is present in their thoughts, actions, and words that that they express at different times to different people. I am still learning as to what action causes what reaction to anothers thoughts as well as their actions, but the emotional ones are simple enough. Their is always trust you must reach with another to point their free will in another direction, else your psychological plan to determine anothers path fails and falls appart.
Can you state categorically that the choices you did not make were actually possible for you to make or is that simply an illusion that you like to maintain?
Are you asking me if I could have instead of going to the beach on vacation with a friend durring the time she was in the hospital, that I have stayed with her. She woke up, she was alive, how was I supposed to know what mind she would have? I only got to see her because of her real father when this started. Worse my parents sent me away to make sure her parents did not press charges. Sure I could have done that, stayed , I remember the choice very vividly. But it was her not me that maintained the illusion after the facts. She had found her escape, her mom and stepdad got divorced, but her torment was never ending. She would pull me in with words very much like yourse, simple, elegant, exact. Always knowing the outcome of the next question. That is to say you remind me of my ex girlfriend in a way. But even she can not break the current level of free will that I have placed on my mind. But what of the body you ask? You have to build something that can give someone more free will over their body or erase the bad memories that place restraints on their thoughts.
"I doubt I have free will, I think I have free will, I do have free will, I am almost certain I have free will"
It's a level of confidence that I express in these last words. One is doubt where you have placed false beliefs. The next is the thought followed by the action. The last is the one that represents the concept after the action where you are given the choice to believe the action. It is when one is almost certain where choice happens and options that you take to determine your own future are wieghed. STOP Go back read that again. It is a general timeline not an exact science as memories spark different ideas. You weigh them with your past doubts and your past influences, but in the end the choice is yours on the belief.
The word is mute as that is usually what I did when my ex would ask, "why weren't you there for me in the hospital?" I now instead of succuming to anger should just say, "Oh, there are so many reasons: and i will speak of them in the present but i'll speak only with sarcasm:
1: my free will doesn't allow me to be there.
2: I thought you were going to die. That would have been so much better.
3: I Did. LOL would you look at that.
4: shutup crazy bitch. Love you."
Hell no that is a terrible idea. I'm "supposed" to think she is crazy. That is the "initial point" in her text. That is why it is the Type 2 error. Nobody is crazy from my standpoint it is just all different levels of free will. The doubt in your mind places the constraints on your abilities. There is always a way to find the constraints on a person's mind. It still does not change the fact that we both have our own individual levels of free will from a cognitive standpoint.