M*W,
I hadn’t aimed my post specifically at you. You seem to have taken my comment personally. If you so easily recognize yourself in my comments then perhaps you do have a problem.
I aim not to insult but to teach.
Then sympathize with their condition and seek their trust. They will not listen to you otherwise and will likely go further in the wrong direction if you always appear hateful and aggressive towards them.
The religion forum has become a Christian forum (see there, I spelled it out so as not to offend the ignorant).
And I thought it was becoming atheistic. Christian issues are likely to surface more frequently because most members here are from the USA and that has a predominantly Christian influence.
It's okay for the Christians to repeat the same thing over and over again or quote paragraph after paragraph of Bible scripture, but just let me post something controversial but true, then I get lambasted by the moderators!
I wasn’t acting as a moderator just another poster. But again my post was a general observation about hateful and negative comments made by non-believers. Since I am a non-believer I would rather not be grouped with those who display such hateful and counterproductive remarks.
But responding to scripture babble by calling them liars and stupid doesn’t help our case, whether it is true or not.
This forum doesn't want the truth to be known as it might offend the brainwashed.
I do not believe that being offensive is the best way or even an effective way to the discovery of truth. If facts are present then they can always be presented objectively.
Why don't you just let them have this forum all to their Christian-believing selves and start another one where free-thinkers can post about religious controversy?
This is one of the most free religious debate forums that I have seen on the internet. There is no limit to the controversy that we debate, but I do not believe that such topics should be couched in offensive remarks. If we are civilized, intelligent and genuinely seek truth and worthwhile debates then I believe courteous behavior significantly aids that process.
You must remember, Cris, that Christians don't want to hear the truth, so that offends those of us who do endeavor to learn the truth and speak it freely.
And how does offending them help? It doesn’t. It only satisfies the irrational anger of the offender.
If they are so offended, why then do they choose to be members of this religion forum?
Because they have been told to expect it, and your remarks play directly into their hands and help them see the ‘truth’ of their religion.
If the shoe were on the other foot, their Christian beliefs offend those of us who dare to learn the truth.
Yes but we know they are deluded and such things can’t offend us, we should be above such things. If a child does something wrong because he hasn’t been taught properly do you shout abuse at him or attempt to teach him? That you might not ‘get through’ at first simply means you must exercise patience. Losing your temper will set you back.