I just had a conversation with my Partner which might be related as follows:
P: "Joe just called and said he can't help us out, but we can go over and smoke with him if we want."
T: "Sounds okay. Go ahead and go. I'm just not comfortable with the idea of packing up the kid to go over to someone's place and smoke pot. It just seems ... you know."
P: "Well he's been wanting us to see the place for a while, so it's not like we'll just be going over there to smoke."
Comment: You know, I work very hard to keep my vices away from my daughter as much as possible. We know this house; we know where we can smoke what and not cause a problem. And I've never been one so desperate as to drive over to a friend's house just to smoke a bowl. So something just doesn't make sense to me. Now, given that in the weeks Joe has lived there we haven't popped over to see the place, I just rather think it's silly to decide that we must do that now only because someone has offered us some dope to smoke. It's not like we'd be bringing the stuff to a place we could smoke it "safely." At some point, we'd have to pack the kid--probably passed out at that point from secondhand pollution--into the car and drive home. And while I consider driving stoned much less dangerous than driving drunk ... no.
Am I really being unreasonable, though, inasmuch as I don't want to pack up my daughter just to go over to someone's house and smoke pot in a place that isn't "baby-proofed" and is difficult because of its size (a small flat) to isolate a smoking area within?
And if that answer is "no," could someone please tell me why I have to put up with this or similar logic every day? Like yesterday--the barflies wanted to meet my daughter; Mama packed her up and took her off and had a drink; leaving me at home as a "favor" to me. (What? It was two hours of peace and quiet, to be sure.) And the day before that--if we wish to enter into the discussion a general overview of substance use habits--having to go to the bar to "pick up some nuts and bolts." Yes, she brought home some nuts and bolts that didn't fit what she was trying to put together, but she managed to get a couple of drinks under her belt before driving home.
I'm a stoner. There's no question about that. I proudly advocate it. But what the hell is this?
Two cents? Anyone?
P: "Joe just called and said he can't help us out, but we can go over and smoke with him if we want."
T: "Sounds okay. Go ahead and go. I'm just not comfortable with the idea of packing up the kid to go over to someone's place and smoke pot. It just seems ... you know."
P: "Well he's been wanting us to see the place for a while, so it's not like we'll just be going over there to smoke."
Comment: You know, I work very hard to keep my vices away from my daughter as much as possible. We know this house; we know where we can smoke what and not cause a problem. And I've never been one so desperate as to drive over to a friend's house just to smoke a bowl. So something just doesn't make sense to me. Now, given that in the weeks Joe has lived there we haven't popped over to see the place, I just rather think it's silly to decide that we must do that now only because someone has offered us some dope to smoke. It's not like we'd be bringing the stuff to a place we could smoke it "safely." At some point, we'd have to pack the kid--probably passed out at that point from secondhand pollution--into the car and drive home. And while I consider driving stoned much less dangerous than driving drunk ... no.
Am I really being unreasonable, though, inasmuch as I don't want to pack up my daughter just to go over to someone's house and smoke pot in a place that isn't "baby-proofed" and is difficult because of its size (a small flat) to isolate a smoking area within?
And if that answer is "no," could someone please tell me why I have to put up with this or similar logic every day? Like yesterday--the barflies wanted to meet my daughter; Mama packed her up and took her off and had a drink; leaving me at home as a "favor" to me. (What? It was two hours of peace and quiet, to be sure.) And the day before that--if we wish to enter into the discussion a general overview of substance use habits--having to go to the bar to "pick up some nuts and bolts." Yes, she brought home some nuts and bolts that didn't fit what she was trying to put together, but she managed to get a couple of drinks under her belt before driving home.
I'm a stoner. There's no question about that. I proudly advocate it. But what the hell is this?
Two cents? Anyone?