DONT talk to the gov't.... they do not regulate or control churches. (IN THE USA)
if you want to be of a particular church brand... then you will have to go to their schools... and learn their version of scripture..
ie.. do you want to be catholic, protestant, babtist... what?
cause each will demand that you learn it their way.. only.. and preach it their way.
but..
you dont need any ones help to begin your own church.
and no power on earth can stop you, or say that your version is illegal.
I am the founder of The Empirical Church, and i take orders from no one other than what is found in scripture, and if GOD or Jesus says it to me directly.
marraige in the church... has nothing to do with being married in the state.
churches, can.. however, recieve the permit or whatnot, to handle all the paperwork that normally a gov't clerk would do...
i.e.. you could get married in church, then go to the clerks office and file the paperwork... or.. the church can handle all of it for you. and its legal.
do not confuse the matter, if you really want to preach the gospel, i will help you, seriously... in detail.
but if you want to be a methodist or some established brand... your on your own.
-MT