How stupid is this?
- Eleven or so years ago, my partner was married. Because of the circumstances of their separation, the divorce was never finalized. End result: They are, technically, still married.
- It has been five years since we have heard word one from the husband.
- By Washington state law, my daughter is not my daughter. The state considers this husband in absentia the legal guardian and parent of my daughter, despite DNA evidence to the contrary.
- Thus, I have no legal rights pertaining to my daughter, except ....
- Had Tig decided to put our child up for adoption, Washington law allows me to intervene and claim the child as my own.
Thus--I am not the father of the child, according to law, but could intervene in an adoption because I am the father of the child.
At any rate, it's a relatively simple matter of paperwork to correct, but I fully intend to sue the law once we're done because the situation is absurd. At present, the Birth Certificate must read either the name of the husband in absentia or else "Unknown".
Now, just as an editorial comment: Does anyone really, truly wonder why I dislike "conventional wisdom" and other embodiments of mass psychology? After all, because we live in a state where we elect our leaders, it can be reasonably said that this is the situation the people of the State of Washington desire. It will be my honor and my pleasure to haul them into court. After all, it will be Babygirl et al v. People of the State of Washington. And I was voted at one point, I think, "Most Likely to be Caught Up in a Morbid Legal Mess". Maybe not, but my high school classmates did not expect that graduation would be the last they heard of me; but it was hard to vote for "Most Likely to Go Down in a Drug, Sex, and Death Scandal" or "Most Likely to be Held in Contempt of Congress". But at least they recognized my potential, and now that I have the legitimate reason to go after the public corpus, I shall. Mercilessly.
in irony,
Tiassa
- Eleven or so years ago, my partner was married. Because of the circumstances of their separation, the divorce was never finalized. End result: They are, technically, still married.
- It has been five years since we have heard word one from the husband.
- By Washington state law, my daughter is not my daughter. The state considers this husband in absentia the legal guardian and parent of my daughter, despite DNA evidence to the contrary.
- Thus, I have no legal rights pertaining to my daughter, except ....
- Had Tig decided to put our child up for adoption, Washington law allows me to intervene and claim the child as my own.
Thus--I am not the father of the child, according to law, but could intervene in an adoption because I am the father of the child.
At any rate, it's a relatively simple matter of paperwork to correct, but I fully intend to sue the law once we're done because the situation is absurd. At present, the Birth Certificate must read either the name of the husband in absentia or else "Unknown".
Now, just as an editorial comment: Does anyone really, truly wonder why I dislike "conventional wisdom" and other embodiments of mass psychology? After all, because we live in a state where we elect our leaders, it can be reasonably said that this is the situation the people of the State of Washington desire. It will be my honor and my pleasure to haul them into court. After all, it will be Babygirl et al v. People of the State of Washington. And I was voted at one point, I think, "Most Likely to be Caught Up in a Morbid Legal Mess". Maybe not, but my high school classmates did not expect that graduation would be the last they heard of me; but it was hard to vote for "Most Likely to Go Down in a Drug, Sex, and Death Scandal" or "Most Likely to be Held in Contempt of Congress". But at least they recognized my potential, and now that I have the legitimate reason to go after the public corpus, I shall. Mercilessly.
in irony,
Tiassa